tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4867416107985175121.post5980977585684093666..comments2023-10-28T10:48:50.561-04:00Comments on Sally's Circle: Trying to figure out how grief works -- honestlyMarisa Bardach Ramelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00288735993204143518noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4867416107985175121.post-63127525246291780792009-02-27T15:11:00.000-05:002009-02-27T15:11:00.000-05:00Hi Missy,I've been thinking about you a lot lately...Hi Missy,<BR/>I've been thinking about you a lot lately (I hope you got my message) especially this week. Of course I miss your mom so much, and it is always there but uncannily more intense during these special annuversary times. You are a beautiful young woman of whom your mom would be so proud! I'm so proud for her and for me too! Your honesty is so painful, but I know also therapeutic and healing. Sending you all my love and kisses. Cousin MaxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4867416107985175121.post-13910872128391360412009-02-26T21:46:00.000-05:002009-02-26T21:46:00.000-05:00Oh, and if you want me to kick Mark's behind just ...Oh, and if you want me to kick Mark's behind just say the word. I can totally take him.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639118563136132915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4867416107985175121.post-21538628370405287282009-02-26T21:45:00.000-05:002009-02-26T21:45:00.000-05:00Crap. Sunday. Bah. Tuesday. Bah. I'm sorry. You do...Crap. <BR/><BR/>Sunday. Bah. <BR/><BR/>Tuesday. Bah. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry. <BR/><BR/>You don't have to be the sunshine trooper all the time. I know you want to be and it's easier to be the shiny one than the stormy one most times for someone with your personality. But, you don't have to be shiny all the time. I'm sorry you felt craptastic, but I'm glad you're letting yourself have a shitty week. Grief blows. Big time. It doesn't make you any less shiny the rest of the time.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639118563136132915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4867416107985175121.post-23045647616922440062009-02-26T12:56:00.000-05:002009-02-26T12:56:00.000-05:00Marisa - I feel better reading this blog entry. I...Marisa - <BR/><BR/>I feel better reading this blog entry. It is more relatable to how I feel and how my family interacts. <BR/><BR/>I think the sunshine only comes once you get past the day, past the anticipation of the day.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing!<BR/><BR/>MichelleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4867416107985175121.post-81147777064844270702009-02-26T10:05:00.000-05:002009-02-26T10:05:00.000-05:00Hi Marisa--Just sending you a hug after such a har...Hi Marisa--<BR/>Just sending you a hug after such a hard couple of days. It sounds good that you have a routine to help deal with a difficult day. I hope my family can establish something similar this June on my Dad's birthday. Traditions and routines are so important; they give me a sense of stability, even when I'm feeling out of control.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4867416107985175121.post-50732978847426515912009-02-26T09:56:00.000-05:002009-02-26T09:56:00.000-05:00Marisa,I am gonna get you girl!People dont make me...Marisa,<BR/><BR/>I am gonna get you girl!<BR/><BR/>People dont make me cry.<BR/>Nor do I cry often,<BR/>but I am here to tell you.<BR/>You got me!<BR/><BR/>Minding my own business<BR/>reading your new blog<BR/>entry for today,<BR/>as I often do because<BR/>I am hooked!<BR/><BR/>Deep into relating myself<BR/>in my own little world<BR/>of the things you <BR/>still deal with.<BR/><BR/>Because I have been there!<BR/><BR/>You caught me so off gaurd!<BR/><BR/>Thanks for being you.<BR/>I love how honest you are.<BR/><BR/>Thank you,<BR/>ashley:)Ashley https://www.blogger.com/profile/10514657203184352258noreply@blogger.com